- by Yashaswi When I first considered going to therapy, one of the biggest apprehensions I had was that it would somehow change me as a person. What if I became someone I wouldn’t like? Little did I know that therapists have no such tools to magically change you without your own will. And after … Continue reading Reluctance towards therapy
Rigid people are ones who choose something over intellect and thinking process. Whatever they choose, like money, safety, luxury, status, appreciation etc., becomes their priority. Go through previous article "Why are some people rigid" to understand what is rigid mindset in detail. People who have rigid mindset stick to concepts that they have learned. They … Continue reading How to live with someone who has rigid mindset?
One day, my client was telling me about his birthday celebrations. Generally people feel happy during their birthday celebrations. I predicted that my client was feeling embarrassed or ashamed but not happy. I asked him if that is true. I always verify my assumptions. He said "yes". He was shocked and surprised that I understood … Continue reading We need to unlearn EVERYTHING to learn about a person!
I was interacting with a client. I asked her about why she wants to take care of her family. She said "I am supposed to do that". Again I asked her why. She said "that is what everyone does!". Again I asked her to explain me her rationale. She said " I am not able … Continue reading Why are some people rigid?
Worthless, useless, and hopeless. These are the words I use to describe myself briefly. I don't know when it all started, the negative voice inside me, which keeps whispering into my ears about how useless of a person I am. I think our inner voice decide our self esteem or maybe the other way around. … Continue reading If I only told how I feel.